Before you agree to meet
Most problems can be avoided before you leave the house.
- Only chat with verified profiles. On HookUs, every profile is selfie-verified before it can message
- Have a short video call or voice note exchange first. It takes two minutes and confirms the person is who they say
- Agree on what the meetup is. If your intents match on your profiles, say it out loud anyway
- Never send money, gift cards or crypto to anyone you have not met, whatever the reason
Setting up the meet
Choose the place, the time and the exit.
- Meet in a public place first: a bar, a café, a busy park. Not their home, not yours
- Tell a friend who you are meeting, where and when. Share your live location
- Arrange your own transport there and back. Do not rely on them for a ride
- Keep your drink with you, and order it yourself
During and after
Your comfort is the only thing that matters.
- If anything feels off, leave. You do not owe anyone an explanation
- Check in with your friend at an agreed time
- Consent is ongoing. Anyone can change their mind at any point, and that is the end of the conversation
- If someone behaved badly, block and report them in the app. On HookUs a human moderation team reviews every report
Questions people ask
How do I know a hookup app profile is real?
Use apps that verify profiles. HookUs requires a selfie verification before a profile can send a message. A quick video call before meeting adds another layer.
Where should I meet someone from a hookup app for the first time?
Somewhere public with other people around, such as a bar or café, where you can leave easily. Avoid going straight to a private home.
What should I do if a hookup goes wrong?
Leave as soon as you feel unsafe, contact your friend, and block and report the person in the app. If you are in danger, contact local emergency services.
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